Lives in Haverhill

well what do i say? hmmm i was born in basildon but do not fit the cliche essex girl! I lived in colchester for 20 years and now I am a haverillian (what ever that is!)i have lived here since may '09. i have 4 children, i cook bake and drive. i like to go to the pub and have a drink and a laugh with friends occasionally. I am looking for a genuine man (no pervs please) if you can drive then its a bonus, works, cooking not essential but is an advantage (comes in handy for bbqs and the odd snack)must like kids, family days out, cosy nights in and the odd chic flick. dont mind sport, although i will not go out of my way to watch it! if you do then i will leave you to watch it and i will happilly go bake up a treat in the kitchen! sense of humour a definate, and honesty is essential. i am 5ft 7 so would prefer someone taller than me, im not shallow just like wearing heels!. i am quite independent but miss that special someone to spend time with. i speak my mind when needed, but have been told i am too nice!! i am quite laid back...but not enough for the doormat treatment! like someone who makes me laugh and is as concientious of my needs as i am of theirs. i am fairly intelligent and am a fountain of useless information on occasion! looking for my mr handsome :) i do not just go by looks as personality is important too x if u fancy a chat let me know xx