Lives in Ipswich

I am in a long term relationship. I'm in a position now where I am becoming more aware of myself and what I want from life, I'm more confident in my own skin and aware that I am a red bloodied female, who enjoys male company. I am a curvy lady, who is now realising that life isn't about being a size 8 and that sexiness comes from within.
I would like an intelligent man, someone who appreciates people of all walks of life and who ultimately I can feel incredibly sexual with. I would like someone I can connect with first of all, so I'm not looking for an instant meet just for sex. For me intelligence, wit, charm and some class is a natural turn on. Obviously I'm not looking to replace my existing relationship I'm looking for enhancement