Lives in Sheffield

VERY IMPORTANT !!!! DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE A 'PLAYER', ie 'AFTER ONE THING' OR A 'BIT OF FUN' ! ! ! ! ! ! I can't possibly make that any clearer !!!

GROWING TIRED OF THIS SITE -TAKING A BREAK FROM IT

Right then, Noice girl here looking for a Noice fellow..... If you're not prepared to treat me as well as I would treat you, then there's no need to read ANY FURTHER!!! (Nice is spelt wrong on purpose, I like to be quirky).

I am looking for someone who knows what he wants and MEANS what he says....... If you don't mean what you say, then don't say it............... Someone honest and open.... My profile says 'is actively seeking a relationship', but I would just like to say that you can't just choose to 'have' a relationship, it should come naturally over time and should start off with friendship, then progress into a relationship without you really knowing..... I guess I am saying I don't want to rush headlong into something and would prefer to keep things light as friends at first, with a view to more if things are right...... 'F' comes before 'R' in the alphabet, 'F' is for Friendship, 'R' is for Relationship - enough said!!! :o)

I have given this some thought - None of us can expect to find the 'right one' for each of us on our doorsteps, for they may be much further afield, maybe even OKLAHOMA!! So saying you want to meet someone 'within so many miles' is really unrealistic I reckon.

Anyone who wants to play games and expects to tick every box after a first meeting, please pass me by as life is way too short!!! If we both tick SOME boxes (One essential box would obviously need to be chemistry) then that's a good start. I am the sort of person who is willing to work on ticking any un-ticked boxes, I can't say fairer than that....

There are some people out there who expect way too much of a potential partner, and wonder why they are still on the single shelf or have attracted a shed load of bull sh***ers who then go on to kicking them in the y